Now this first entry is a question that I thought about while reading a book. I'm sure many of you have heard of it "Sex Chronicles" by Zane. In the book there was a statement made about women who withhold sex from their partners for various reasons and the partners just going out and getting it from somewhere else. So my question is Do you think it is fair for a man to go out and sleep with someone else jsut because his wife or girlfriend is not giving him any? Furthermore are we as women supposed to accept that our man is going out and getting it from another female because we are not allowing him to have any of our goods?
To answer my own question I would say that first off I am against infidelity. No matter what your reason is for being unfaithful whether we are married or not it is unexcusable. so with having said that you probably know where I am headed. If you really love a person and that person doesnt want to give you any then you would just suck it up and not worry about it or just play with yourself. A relationship shouldnt be all about sex anyways because the moment when sex is not a factor you two should be able to entertain each other with other things that doesnt involve moaning and humping. And that also brings up this little thought. if sex is the only thing a man cares about in his relationship that means that the minute you decide not to have sex anymore he will be out the door. do you really want a man that will leave you over sex? I know I dont.
That's why many real couples who love each other get to know one another before the sex is even thought of. Therefore when neither of them can get any it wont be a problem and that when the talking and cuddling comes in. So get with it or get off it. Thanks for listening.
To answer my own question I would say that first off I am against infidelity. No matter what your reason is for being unfaithful whether we are married or not it is unexcusable. so with having said that you probably know where I am headed. If you really love a person and that person doesnt want to give you any then you would just suck it up and not worry about it or just play with yourself. A relationship shouldnt be all about sex anyways because the moment when sex is not a factor you two should be able to entertain each other with other things that doesnt involve moaning and humping. And that also brings up this little thought. if sex is the only thing a man cares about in his relationship that means that the minute you decide not to have sex anymore he will be out the door. do you really want a man that will leave you over sex? I know I dont.
That's why many real couples who love each other get to know one another before the sex is even thought of. Therefore when neither of them can get any it wont be a problem and that when the talking and cuddling comes in. So get with it or get off it. Thanks for listening.
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