Why do I have to be fair when we are only dating?

Whether you are new at dating or you have been dating for a long time and haven’t yet committed yourself to being in a relationship dating is a 50/50 thing. As with any relationship or friendship it’s not always about you. You have to be equal with each other during the dating stage and when just dating turns into a relationship. Listening is a good way to start. Dating is the stage where you don’t know much about each other to dislike one another, so you try to get to know each other. But no one will know anything if they never get to say anything. It’s a two way street. You talk and then the other person talks. You listen and the other person listens. If you are dating and the other person has something to say listen. Don’t cut him /her off when they are talking or even worse roll your eyes and smack your lips. Especially if you get the respect that you deserve when the shoe is on the other foot. And if you’re dating buddy or partner is willing to do certain things that you like even if they don’t then do the same for them and set aside your pride or your attitude for the moment. It’s not going to kill you to just do something that the other person wants to do, especially if you like them and want to continue dating them. And no one wants to be in any type relationship with someone who is all about themselves. If that’s the case then you should be by yourself. Honestly at the end of the day you are going to end up alone and sad because you don’t have anyone to share your life with. And the last time I checked that’s why majority of the people date. So they can find their soul mate.  I know I wouldn’t want to be with someone who is unfair and thinks that everything should go their way when we are not even in a relationship yet. That would definitely be a sign for me not to even pursue anything with you any further. And when it’s all said and done you are either going to have to go on a million dates before you find someone who is willing to put up with you crap or you may never find someone because of your attitude

Just be mindful of other feelings and remember that someone who doesn’t know you doesn’t have to put up with you or you issues at all, so they are more prone to leave at the drop of a dime rather than stay and try to figure out what’s going on. First impressions are always the last impressions.