A Good Man Is Hard to Find

People always say a good man is hard to find. Do you believe that or is that just what the women who can’t get a good man say to make themselves feel better?

I think it is a little of both mixed with the type of woman you are. If you are one of those women who are attracted to bad guys then of course you will never find a good one because that’s not what you are looking for. Sometimes you have to ignore your attraction and do what’s beneficial for your life in order to get the good guy you need. And a lot of times the good ones could be right in our face, but we don’t see them because they may be less attractive to us then the good looking bad guys. And even though we know that this guy over here who wears the saggy pants and fitted caps is no good for us we wouldn’t dare be caught with this wonderful loving man next to us just because they’re not as cute.

If that’s not bad enough in some cases the good guys don’t want to be found. Especially not by a so called bad girl. One thing I have learned about being a woman is that it takes not even 2 seconds for a girl’s reputation to be ruined versus that of boys. All it takes is for one negative thing to be said about one woman and men seem to apply it to all the women as if we are all the same. So when the good guys hear these things about a woman the last thing they want is someone to take all of their money and leave them hanging out to dry. So off they go looking for Ms. Right. Not all men look for women just to have sex with them.

The way I see it is it’s just as hard to find a good woman as it is to find a good man. That’s not to say that there aren’t any out there, but if you want them then you have to be a good person at heart as well. And you can’t pretend either because the moment you’re caught that good woman or man is out the door. You can’t play games with good people because they know they’re worth so they aren’t going to put up with the nonsense. So I say be a good person and a good person will come find you or you will find each other. And since we know that they are hard to find, I suggest that you treat them right and hold on tight because you never know when you will find another one. Happy Hunting!